Why you shouldn't fall into the self-improvement trap

Since self improvement doesn’t have an end, there’ll always be a thing or two that you can do to improve yourself. Don’t fall into the self-improvement trap. If you do, you start believing that you’re not worthy or beautiful until you change.

You’re worthy and beautiful right at this moment despite your current imperfections.

When you accept yourself completely as you are in this moment, you stop judging yourself for all the “negative” things that make you you. The “negative things” are things like your impatience, your horrible listening skills, or your low self confidence.

When you accept yourself completely as you are in this moment, you learn to be gentle and patient with yourself as you transform into the type of person that you’ve always wanted to be.

When you accept yourself completely as you are in this moment, you see beauty and worth in everyone despite their current imperfections.

“Never be afraid” photo by Allie Smith on Unsplash

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4 thoughts on “Why you shouldn't fall into the self-improvement trap

  1. That’s spot on.
    I’ve always been happy with myself, but I always want to push for more and better myself. While I enjoy it for the most part, it does twist your perception sometimes and makes you feel like you’re missing something.
    Thank you for reminding me to just chill.

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